Time.
Remember the time when we were so much younger with nothing to worry about? The time when money was not really factored into our consideration in whatever we did, and when our schedules were wide open with no particular restrictions. We led such carefree lives. As a child, we were so sheltered, we didn't face any cruelty in life. As an adult, we would be expected to have developed a life skill that protects us and the ones we love from such cruelty. As a teenager, we're stuck in the middle with nobody to really look out for us and yet, we don't have the full ability to overcome the problems we face.
This got me thinking, when a 20-something feels out of the ordinary, how does he/she pick him- or herself up? There's no clear rules and procedure nor tricks that helps the recovery process. So is the teen left alone to sort out his own problems?
As sensible human beings, the answer is obvious - we deal with things head-on and settle them as quickly as we can. No fuss no muss. But is it acceptable to rewind to an earlier emotional and mental stage and just wait for a rescue?